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Book Review: Under the Never Sky Series

My favorite thing about summer is that I actually have time to read books. From August until May school takes up 120 percent of my time, but in the three months in between, all those books that have been stacking up on my shelf and lists are fair game. I started this summer by reading another book by my favorite author (not branching out) and re-reading one of my favorite series (Divergent, again…not branching out). Then I came upon a list of books recommended for people who enjoy books such as the Hunger Games and Divergent so I decided to try it out.  Here is my review of the Under the Never Sky series:

Title: Under the Never Sky

          Through the Ever Night

          Into the Still Blue

Author: Veronica Rossi

Genre: young adult, sci-fi, romance, fantasy, dystopia

 under never sky graphic

Summary: Under the Never Sky tells the story of 17-year-old Aria after she has been exiled from Reverie, here secluded and partly virtual home. This punishment is almost certain death, outside of her enclosed city is a wasteland inhabited by brutal, barbaric tribes and terrible storms. She is on her deathbed when she meets Perry, her only chance for survival. Despite his hesitation, they both realize they need each other to get what they want and survive. Aria and Perry must learn how to work together to survive.

Review: This book started out really slow for me. I really love this style of book, but for some reason I had a hard time getting into this story at first. Dystopian style novels tend to start out kind of slow because the author spends so much time explaining the setting and context for the story. However, once I got passed the first 50 or so pages, the story picked up greatly.

I fell in love with the characters. They are rough, yet charming; unreal, yet engaging and believable. You have your traditional: we hate each other, but we need each other to survive story line—-which can set kind of old and predictable, but the characters were so well written that I really didn’t mind. Aria- the confused, scared yet strong female lead. Perry- the gentle and passionate giant. Roar (possibly my favorite of all)- the deeply sensitive and spunky sidekick best friend. They are all interesting, well-developed and well rounded. That being said, I almost think that the first novel was my least favorite character wise. They introduce a lot of little characters, but it isn’t until you get into the second and third novels that you really fall in love with them. I think this goes back to the author having to spend so much time creating and explaining the environment that the books take place in.

Once I finished the first book, I immediately headed to the library to find the other two. Then finished them both within a week. The character’s blossom, the story lines are engaging and continue to be action packed and the love-story (spoiler, but not really because predictable) becomes complicated and deep.

This series was a surprise for me. I went into hoping it would be interesting enough for me to finish, and that I wouldn’t feel like I had wasted my time. Boy, did I win out on that bet!

I recommend this book to anyone who likes the young adult, dystopian-style, romance-yet action packed novels. Very, very similar style to The Hunger Games and Divergent series’, if those are up your alley. It may be a little hard to start, but give it time and you will likely fall in love!

4.5/5 stars.


Advice for College Freshmen Part II: How to Be a Good Roommate

roommate graphic

Whether you are rooming with your best friend or some rando you got matched with, roommate situations can be difficult and confusing. You can start off on the right foot by establishing important rules and boundaries from day one. Here are some things to consider in any roommate situation:

Set boundaries and be honest about what you want: You’re going to be sharing a room with this person for the next 9 months; this just means that you need to set some boundaries. This includes things such as food, clothes, space and time. Will you share food? Clothes? Can they go into your stuff if they need to borrow something while you’re gone? Are there specific time you can and can’t use the TV? Do you plan to study in your room or at the library? You don’t need to have 100% of this figured out, it will come with time, but you do need to consider where you stand and what you want. However, you do need to consider the important things immediately because you’ll fall into a routine and you need to respect that it is as much their room as it is yours.

Be willing to share, but not everything: I’m pretty sure it would be impossible to live in the same room with someone for a year and not share things. That’s just weird. You definitely don’t have to share every single thing you own, but you need to establish some rules as to what you can and can’t borrow. My roommate and I have some very basic but important sharing rules:

  • Food can be shared, but be respectful. If it’s their favorite food ever ever ever, proceed with caution (like if you eat my roommate’s red sour patch kids….you may want to sleep with one eye open). Also, don’t finish their food. That’s just cruel.
  • Share clothes, but ask first. More than likely you’re going to need/want to borrow a shirt or dress or something of your roommates, just establish rules about what and when they can take and if they always need to ask.
  • School supplies are pretty much fair game. The way I see it, if it’s going to help you be a better student and achieve your academic goals then please take something out of my desk (I’m talking about paper clips and staplers and stuff, but this is important stuff y’all!)

There are plenty of other things you could need to share (DVDs, chargers etc), just be sure to discuss the rules as they come up.

Have communication skills: FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THAT IS GOOD IN THIS WORLD, COMMUNICATE. Passive-aggressivity is not the way to go in a roommate situation. If there is something they repeatedly do that is bothering you, nicely bring it up. If you need to address something that isn’t working or a rule that needs to change, do it. Don’t sulk around getting all pent-up with anger because you’re too petty to bring it up. Just do it. You’ll thank yourself later.

Set some ground rules: more rules, yay! Here I’m talking more about rules for having people over and doing work and watching TV and all of that jazz. You’re inevitably going to have a time when you have people come to stay for a night or weekend. Your roommate deserves advance notice in this situation. They don’t necessarily have to make other plans to be gone (you are in no way entitled to kick your roommate out of the room for an extended amount of time, it is as much their room as yours), but they deserve time to make any plans they need or want and prepare. It’s also important to establish rules about the use of TV and music in the room. I personally do most of my studying and homework in my room, as does my roommate. Therefore, we don’t really want the TV on in the middle of the afternoon. Some people prefer to work outside of their room so they may not care if their roommate watches Ellen everyday at 4pm. It all depends on personal preference, just be sure to talk it out.

R-E-S-P-E-C-T: Have respect for the person who shares the same room with you. It’s just basic courtesy.

Do your part: You will have to clean and do chores. Share the burden. Freshman year we made a chore chart for our room, we rotated taking the trash out and washing the dishes and then jointly cleaned the room/bathroom about once a month. DO NOT put all of those duties on your roommate (they will hate you). DO NOT not do chores (it’s gross and smells and it’s just not a good idea). If you’re having problems with getting your roommate to do equal work, talk about it (or make a chore chart and nicely force it upon them!).

Find something to bond over: living with a roommate can be awkward and weird at first. Find something you have in common and bond over it. My roommate and I bonded over a mutual love of Taylor Swift and then continued to bond over TV shows and musicians and other things. Try to find something you have in common and cultivate a relationship with that in mind. Your roommate can be an amazing rock and confidant in your life. Try new things together. Try something they like. Keep an open relationship because it will benefit you in the future.

Help them out: if your roommate is struggling with something, whether it is time-management or course load or being homesick: help them out. Let them know you are there and help in any way you can. Moving away from home is not easy and everyone struggles in his or her own way. Be there for them, roommates stick together.


All this being said, I have the best roommate in the world. We met on a roommate matching website through our university and clicked instantly and we have been insanely lucky to have bonded and connected in the way we did and maintain such a strong relationship (she’s the Cristina to my Meredith and I had to write that in here because she said she would kill me if I didn’t include a Grey’s reference). Also, sorry not sorry here is a nice montage of our faces.

rommate collage

However, I do realize that this is not the case for all people. In the event that you end up with a not-so-great roommate these rules still apply. You obviously don’t need to spend extra time with them, but you still need to set boundaries and establish rules and communicate your needs. Mutual respect is rule numero uno for roommate situations and if you can make that a rule of thumb in your dorm, your roommate may not turn out to be so bad!


Always remember: it is as much their space as it is yours.


Until next time!


june playlist

one of the first things you will learn about me is that i am a music addict. i love finding new music. i love delving into a new song and really reading the lyrics and melodies. so you’ll probably find a lot on here about music, including my 10 favorite songs from the previous month….enjoy.

  1. Photograph by Ed Sheeran (actually basically the entire ed sheeran cd, but i’m going to put my absolute favorite on here anyways).
  2. Tenerife Sea by Ed Sheeran (i mean….seriously…swoon)
  3. Even My Dad Does Sometimes by Ed Sheeran (okay, i’m done with my ed rant now)
  4. Bathroom Sink by Miranda Lambert
  5. XO by John Mayer (again….SWOON)
  6. Blaze by Colbie Caillat
  7. Take Me Home by Mikey Wax
  8. Leave the Night On by Sam Hunt
  9. American Kids by Kenny Chesney (IN LOVE WITH THIS SONG)
  10. Boom Clap by Charli XCX


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